We cannot think of a life without family; we cannot also think of a family life without husband and wife in marriage relationship for long happiness. How to make husband happy is all about in wife’s mind. All want marital life a happy and successful life. For that, we need to consider effective ways to keep our partner happy that will guarantee that marriage will last long with happy moments.
We all want happiness in life within marriage or outside marriage. By birth we are inbuilt with resources to experience happiness but unfortunately we don’t practice those rules and values in our lives. If you go little further, Practising meditation as husband and wife leads to another dimension where they feel that they are one and not two. One could attain long life with happiness through daily meditation, understanding his or her partner as his or her soulmate.
I would like to produce more marriage quotes to enrich your reflection on marital relationship. “Happy is the man who finds a true friend, and far happier is he who finds that true friend in his wife.” Franz Schubert
1. Appreciate Your Partner:
A word of encouragement from a teacher to a child can change a life. A word of encouragement from a spouse can save a marriage. A word of encouragement from a leader can inspire a person to reach her potential. Words of appreciation gives life even though you are physically unable. In other words, words of appreciation gives enthusiasm to anyone who hears. When you appreciate your partner, he or she feels acceptances as your own property which deepen the relationship of both. “You can show that appreciation in big and little ways. It’s often the little things that really count and will add up to a stable, loving, and mutually beneficial relationship.” W. C. Dukenfeld, Make Sure The Romance Never Dies
2. Respect Each Other
Husband and wife are equal in family. No one is higher or lower when we consider both. We all might have heard the phrase, “Give respect and take Respect”. No from husband and wife or male and female, we all need respect and we all expect respect. Maintaining respect among each other with understanding will strengthen family life.
3. Take Care of Your Health
“Health is wealth”, and without health there is no use of wealth. To have better health one must take care of natural food. Think of a family where wife is sick all the time. In this situation what would happen in the life of the husband?. We can simply imagine how the result would be in the future. Maintaining good health is more and more important in marriage life in order to make partner happy. “A good marriage would be between a blind wife and a deaf husband.” Michel de Montaigne
4. Say Thank You Always
Words of appreciations and words of thanks are the expressions of love and acceptance. How do you feel when someone say “Thank You”. I am sure you will feel joy and happiness. When you express your gratitudes to your partner with thanks it will creates happy environment at home. “It is not a lack of love, but a lack of friendship that makes unhappy marriages.” Friedrich Nietzsche
5. Smail With Each Other
Smile is the best attitude in expression in human beings, but today it’s very expensive even to see a person smiling with others. Animal can make noise and fight, but they cannot laugh and smile. It is God given gifts to us that we can laugh and smile. When husband and wife laugh and smile with each other, they become more beautiful humans. The attitude of smiling will make marriage life more happy. “Let the wife make the husband glad to come home, and let him make her sorry to see him leave.” Martin Luther
6. Practice Honesty
Even though husband and wife are two persons they should be one in mind and body. In between them there should not be any space in action and thoughts. Nothing to hide and nothing to reveal; which means they should practice honesty everyday and every monet. “We must value life and treasure each breath we take. We must value each person and how he or she touches our lives everyday.” Shadonna Richards, A Gift of Hope
7. Careful With Your Words
Good words always build a beautiful situation and bad words always destroy the beautiful situation. If you are not aware of your words when you communicate with your partner, the words itself may destroy your marriage relationship. “When marrying, ask yourself this question: Do you believe that you will be able to converse well with this person into your old age? Everything else in marriage is transitory.” Friedrich Nietzsche
8. Talk and Keep Silence
Silence is gold and the moments of silence are precious moment s in one’s life. You need to talk when you are suppose to talk and you need to keep silence when you are suppose to keep silence. Both will enrich your marriage relationship to make happy married life. “Instead of being impatient because you have to wait for something, be grateful for the extra time you have now to notice and appreciate your surroundings.” Danielle Tinning,
9. Maintain Intimacy and Passion
“The real act of marriage takes place in the heart, not in the ballroom or church or synagogue. It’s a choice you make – not just on your wedding day, but over and over again – and that choice is reflected in the way you treat your husband or wife.” Barbara De Angelis